so upset

[Blue Eyes 409]

Well last month Dh said that he had been thinking about TTC and we needed to start because we are getting old ( I am 37) so I got all excited about TTC. Well then we had the small house fire on the day of O so we were not able to Try. This month I was so excited to start Trying and Dh got sick the day before I got my + OPK and so we have not BD. I know I o'ed yesterday and I tried so hard to get him to BD and nothing. I am so upset because I was wanting to be in the running for a BFP this month.

I am so stressed about this and there is nothing I can do. I am scared to Dh is going to back out of trying.

[Mari_Posa]

:bluehug: Getting sick is the worse but more so when your ttc. Maybe he might be feeling better today and you can convince to DTD, you still have a window of opportunity.

[Elaine]

Hey... 37 isn't that old... :hehe: I'm 37 too.

:bluehug: Yuck... I agree with Marilyn. Maybe you can still sneak something in. :support:

[AshleyMommyto2]

Hang in there girl! :hug:

[Jojo]

awww I'm sorry hun :hug:

[Andrea]

:hug:

[Leah]

Just don't tell him you need to bd for ttcing purposes. Seduce him or something and try not to talk to him too much about the process. I think that works well for most men..if they just get to enjoy the sex part. :eyeroll:

[Heather]

I"m sorry girl. I completely understand how you feel. (((HUGS)))

[Ashley]

:hug: I hope that next month you're able to do it and he doesn't change his mind! :support:

[Farah]

:hug: I hope that next month nothing gets in your way!!! It'll happen, I just know it!