Getting a bit discouraged

[Mari_Posa]

Warning, this might turn into a mini vent.....Why in the hell does ttc have to be so flippin' difficult!?!!? I don't think we caught the eggie this month. When I tell you that the laws of nature are against me, I swear to you, its not a lie. I think it was 2 months ago that I had the YI right around O time. Last month was the stress of dealing with my IL's loan for their new home which almost didn't happen. This month we all got sick, again right around O time, WTF!!!! We managed to BD but it was like we were doing it just to do it. DH doesn't want me on clomid next month, he wants us to take a break and I'm starting to think that we need it. And for what ever reason people out of nowhere that I have not seen in a while keep asking me if we are planning on having another baby, that its about time, if they only knew. I might even stop temping the remainder of this cycle, I just don't feel like it anymore. Sorry to vent chicas its just this whole ttc thing is really getting to me. :reallymad:

[Ashley]

:hug: I'm sorry things have been so rough :( I really hope you see some success soon! :support:

[Jojo]

:bluehug:

I'm sorry Marilyn. TTC sucks :support::support::support:

[Elaine]

:bluehug:

You've had a rough go of it lately, haven't you? Hang in there! Do what you have to do and if taking a break is what you need then do it. :support:

[Leah]

:hug: I'm sorry girl! It is SO rough. I think you have a good idea and should stop temping. Once you know you O'd it doesn't really do anything anyway, other than give us all something to obsess over. If your cycles are fairly consistent anyway, I would give it up and step back from it a bit, hopefully it will help you concieve too by not thinking about it so much (if that's possible). I hope this is your cycle, even though you don't feel it. You dont' have to enjoy the sex or be really into it for it to work....the swimmers just need to make their way to the right place. :goodluck:

[Andrea]

:hug:I hope you get lucky on your break!:support:

[Heather]

Vent here anytime, babydoll! TTC is very hard, especially when it's all you can think about. I'm still praying for you all the time! Maybe the no temping thing will help you to not stress so much. Just tell the next person who asks when the next one is coming to shove it up their @ss! :D

[natalie]

:bluehug:

[Farah]

I'm so sorry girl! You're having such a rough time this go around! I would be so frustrated, too. Shoot, I was when we were spending 2.5 years trying to get Charlie! I understand! :support:

Vent to us anytime. Do what you need to do to get your mind, body, AND spirit to be at peace and hopefully we'll get you pregnant! :support: