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theWrap
04-25-2010, 05:40 PM
I read this article: http://www.foxnews.com/us/2010/04/25/years-later-widower-recalls-slain-family/

Essentially, a man's wife and two young daughters were murdered 25 years ago, and a man was tried and convicted and sentenced to death in a state court. The case was appealed, overturned by the state Supreme Court, and re-tried. The second time around, the man was found not guilty. Recently, DNA evidence was found, and the man was tried again, this time in a military court, and convicted.

The reason I post this here is that the murderer knew the family because he had bought a dog from them a few weeks before the murder. The family lived in North Carolina, and the father was in Air Force training in Alabama when the murder happened. In other words, the wife and three children were home alone when this man, who had bought their dog, came over. The woman was raped, and she and two of her daughters were brutally, repeatedly stabbed.

It reminds of a case I had where a man, twice previously convicted for rape, was working for Atlanta Gas Light Company. He came to the home of a mother and toddler, while the husband was at work. He'd previously worked in this residence and he claimed he had to work on the gas line in the house. He very nearly raped her - she faked a heart attack and he ran. This happened in the middle of the day.

My point is this: be very careful. Most often, victims KNOW their attackers, and they let their attackers in their homes willingly. IF someone comes over to do work for a company and you haven't made the appointment yourself, don't let them in. If a husband's friend or co-worker or boss comes over when your spouse isn't home and you haven't previously arranged it, don't let them in. If your neighbor, the guy at the gas station, someone whose car broke down -whatever- comes and knocks on the door and you are alone with your children, don't let them come into your house. Be very careful.

dixielanddelight
04-25-2010, 05:47 PM
Scary...One of the many reasons I am terrified to live alone.........Or go anywhere alone for that matter. I feel like a single, distracted mother, with two young kids is an easy target....I can't live with my mom forever, and God knows I have GOT to get out of here soon...But the thought scares me.

Jane99
04-27-2010, 12:20 AM
:( It's so sad, but really is a reminder.

Bootysaurus
04-27-2010, 12:33 AM
Yea. I never open my door for strangers. I'll yell through the door before I open it IF I even acknowledge they are there.

I want to get our security door...that way I can talk through it without having to do anything.

But NO ONE comes in this house without my husband being home (unless it's my friends).

Jojo
04-27-2010, 08:54 AM
If we ever have anyone working here my FIL is always around. Thank God for that. I always tell my husband I will not be left alone with anyone in the house working so we make sure someone is always here with me.